Gender Versus
Three queer friends explore how binary gender roles limit human progress in every major human endeavor.
Three queer friends explore how binary gender roles limit human progress in every major human endeavor.
Episodes

Dec 25, 2024
Gender vs Language, Pt. 2
Dec 25, 2024
Dec 25, 2024
1 hr 31 min
Join us for this final episode before we go on hiatus! We wrap up our discussion of the gendered implications of language by discussing calling women girls, asymmetrical gender marking, and use of African American Vernacular English within the queer community.
SHOW NOTES: https://genderversus.wixsite.com/gender-versus/post/gender-vs-language-pts-1-2
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Dec 25, 2024
1 hr 31 min

Dec 11, 2024
Gender vs Language, Pt. 1
Dec 11, 2024
Dec 11, 2024
1 hr 29 sec
Ever wonder how the language you speak shapes the way you see the world? In this episode, we explore how gendered language might influence thoughts about gender roles and societal norms. From Finnish and Swahili's gender-neutral pronouns to the gendered languages like Spanish, we unpack how linguistic quirks like noun genders and “male generics” shape everything from household chores to workforce participation.
SHOW NOTES: https://genderversus.wixsite.com/gender-versus/post/gender-vs-language-pts-1-2
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Email: genderversus@gmail.com
Insta: @GenderVersusPod
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Dec 11, 2024
1 hr 29 sec

Nov 27, 2024
Gender vs The Ocean
Nov 27, 2024
Nov 27, 2024
1 hr 15 min
This episode, we dive into the fluid depths of gendered waters—literally. Why is the ocean so often associated with femininity? From ancient myths of sea goddesses to the tradition of calling ships “she,” water has long been associated with women and femininity in fascinating ways. We unpack medieval beliefs about women’s bodies and wetness, consider how queer narratives often flow back to the ocean, and discuss why maritime language and culture still lean into these gendered metaphors. Also featuring discussion of Ren's most terrifying SCUBA diving experience.
SHOW NOTES: https://genderversus.wixsite.com/gender-versus/post/gender-vs-the-ocean
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Email: genderversus@gmail.com
Insta: @GenderVersusPod
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Nov 27, 2024
1 hr 15 min

Nov 13, 2024
Gender vs Death, Pt. 2
Nov 13, 2024
Nov 13, 2024
1 hr 2 min
In Part II of our deep dive into death, we explore why women tend to outlive men, the role smoking and marriage play in longevity, and the shocking realities of women’s cardiovascular health. We also touch on the less-discussed inequalities of burial practices for women, the challenges faced by trans individuals in death, and how systemic racism impacts Black Americans' health outcomes.
SHOW NOTES: https://genderversus.wixsite.com/gender-versus/post/gender-vs-death-pts-1-2
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Email: genderversus@gmail.com
Insta: @GenderVersusPod
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Nov 13, 2024
1 hr 2 min

Oct 30, 2024
Gender vs Death, Pt. 1
Oct 30, 2024
Oct 30, 2024
1 hr 17 min
In this episode, the crew tackles an unexpected yet fascinating opponent: death! We dive into the evolving gender dynamics of the funeral industry, exploring how a traditionally male-dominated field is seeing a resurgence of women reclaiming roles that were once considered “women’s work.” From the history of embalming during the Civil War to the rise of death doulas and the eco-friendly burial movement, we’ll chat about how feminist perspectives are transforming how we deal with dying—and why the future of death might just be a little less patriarchal. Tune in for all things grim and groundbreaking!
SHOW NOTES: https://genderversus.wixsite.com/gender-versus/post/gender-vs-death-pts-1-2
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Email: genderversus@gmail.com
Insta: @GenderVersusPod
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Oct 30, 2024
1 hr 17 min

Oct 16, 2024
Gender vs Cats
Oct 16, 2024
Oct 16, 2024
1 hr 10 min
In this episode, we’re diving into the fascinating world of gender and cats! Did you know the typical cat owner is a 43-year-old married woman living in a cozy suburban home with her two feline friends? But that’s just the start—while cats are often seen as a "woman's pet," plenty of men are proud cat dads, and they might just have a softer side than we think. We'll explore the quirky gender dynamics of cats and their owners, dig into why some people can’t stand these independent furballs, and unravel the deep bond many of us share with our whiskered companions.
SHOW NOTES: https://genderversus.wixsite.com/gender-versus/post/gender-vs-cats
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Email: genderversus@gmail.com
Insta: @GenderVersusPod
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Oct 16, 2024
1 hr 10 min

Oct 2, 2024
Gender vs Music, Pt. 2
Oct 2, 2024
Oct 2, 2024
1 hr 17 min
Get ready for round two, folks! In this week's episode--featuring special guest, Dan of The Last Vestige podcast, we continue our exploration of the gendered (and often whitewashed) history of popular music—but this time, with a spotlight on dance music’s rebellious twists and turns. From the rise of solo dance moves to underground jazz scenes in WWII, we're bringing you the stories that shook the dance floor and challenged the status quo. Ever wondered how Black musicians like Frankie Knuckles, Sybil Herrold, and Larry Levan shaped entire genres, only to have their contributions whitewashed by mainstream culture? Get ready to groove as we uncover the stories of those who revolutionized the dance floor and the airwaves, and how their legacy continues to influence the music we love today.
THE LAST VESTIGE PODCAST: https://discord.com/channels/@me/1229510835731304459/1267917189168496662
SHOW NOTES: https://genderversus.wixsite.com/gender-versus/post/gender-vs-music-part-2
Wanna get in touch?
Email: genderversus@gmail.com
Insta: @GenderVersusPod
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Oct 2, 2024
1 hr 17 min

Sep 18, 2024
Gender vs Music, Pt. 1
Sep 18, 2024
Sep 18, 2024
1 hr 32 min
This week, join us for an enlightening episode featuring special guest Dan from the Last Vestige Podcast! Together, we explore the pervasive gender gaps and biases in the music industry. Discover shocking statistics about the low percentage of listeners for female artists and the significant underrepresentation of women in music production roles. We pull back the curtain on why female artists often don't receive the recognition they deserve. Tune in for a mix of humor, personal insights, and a passionate call for change. Don't miss this essential discussion on gender inequality in music!
THE LAST VESTIGE PODCAST: https://discord.com/channels/@me/1229510835731304459/1267917189168496662
SHOW NOTES: https://genderversus.wixsite.com/gender-versus/post/gender-vs-music-pt-1
Wanna get in touch?
Email: genderversus@gmail.com
Insta: @GenderVersusPod
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Sep 18, 2024
1 hr 32 min

Sep 4, 2024
Sep 4, 2024
43 min
Join Ren as they interview their friend, Summer, who just so happens to be an incredible Hyena Mom (trans mama)! This episode we talk all about her experience of becoming a parent, realizing her transness, and navigating her transition and her relationship with her son.
Wanna get in touch?
Email: genderversus@gmail.com
Insta: @GenderVersusPod
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Sep 4, 2024
43 min

Aug 21, 2024
Aug 21, 2024
1 hr 3 min
Join Ren as they interview their friend, Summer, who just so happens to be an incredible Hyena Mom (trans mama)! This episode we talk all about her experience of supporting her partner Sky through pregnancy, labor, and birth. Tune into part 4 (coming soon!) to hear all about Summer's transition and how she navigated it with her young son.
Wanna get in touch?
Email: genderversus@gmail.com
Insta: @GenderVersusPod
X: @GenderVersusPod
Aug 21, 2024
1 hr 3 min

About Us
"Gender Versus” is a groundbreaking podcast hosted by three close and unapologetically queer friends – Tory, Rory, and Ren. With their quick wit and infectious laughter, they fearlessly dive into the absurdities of strict binary gender roles and the ways in which they hinder human progress.
In each episode, Tory, Rory, and Ren infuse their discussions with humor, insight, and a healthy dose of irreverence as they explore the often ridiculous expectations placed on individuals based on their gender. From dissecting outdated stereotypes to sharing hilarious anecdotes from their own lives, the trio sheds light on the ways in which gender norms limit creativity, expression, and social advancement.
Through their lighthearted yet thought-provoking conversations, Tory, Rory, and Ren invite listeners to challenge societal norms, embrace their unique identities, and join in the laughter as they dismantle the barriers to progress one topic at a time. Gender Versus isn't just a podcast – it's a celebration of diversity, authenticity, and the joy of breaking free from the confines of the gender binary. Tune in and prepare to laugh, learn, and be inspired to create a more inclusive and accepting world for all. Join us!





